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One of our favorite songs is "Watching You" by Rodney Atkins. If you haven’t heard it yet, it’s worth a listen. The song tells the story of a dad who realizes the profound impact he's having on his son. Early in the song, the dad overhears his son cussing and, surprised, asks, "Where did you learn to talk like that?" The son's reply is strikingly honest and innocent:

“I’ve been watching you, dad, ain’t that cool.
I’m your buckaroo, I wanna be like you.”

The boy, looking up to his father, mimics his every action. From wearing cowboy boots to copying behaviors—even picking up bad habits. This moment sends the dad to prayer, recognizing the responsibility he bears. He asks God for guidance because he feels like he’s failed as a role model. But later that evening, as the father tucks his son into bed, the boy surprises him by getting on his knees to pray, something he must have also learned from his dad.

This song highlights a truth that resonates deeply within Christian parenting: our children are always watching. They observe the way we live, more than they listen to what we say. As Christian parents and mentors, it’s crucial to reflect on how we are modeling our faith.

Are you teaching your children to pray by praying with them? Are you demonstrating the importance of service by going out of your way to help others? Do you live with gratitude, showing your kids what it means to appreciate God’s blessings? Our actions often speak louder than words.

Deuteronomy 6:6-7 says, “These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” This passage reminds us that our faith should be a constant, visible part of our daily lives.

Let your life be a testimony, one that guides your child or teen closer to Christ. You don’t have to be perfect, but by intentionally living out your faith, you’ll plant seeds that will grow into something beautiful in their hearts. Just like the father in the song, you might find that your children are learning more from you than you realize—both in the moments when you stumble and when you stand strong in faith.